Posts by Molly Keating

About Molly Keating

Hello! I'm Molly and I run & manage the Blog here at O'Connor. I grew up in a mortuary with a mortician for a father who's deep respect for the profession inspired me to give working at a mortuary a try. Work at O'Connor has brought together two of my deep passions, writing & grief awareness. In 2016 I earned Certification in the field of Thanatology, the study of Death, Dying and Bereavement. I am honored to be able to speak on these taboo topics with knowledge, compassion, and a unique perspective. I want to sincerely thank you for following & reading the blog, I hope that this is a healing place for you.
9 09, 2021

Pausing to Remember 9/11 || 20 Years Later

By | 2021-09-09T21:02:46-07:00 September 9th, 2021|Ceremonies, General|0 Comments

  In the 20 years since 9/11 became a part of all our lives. We have enfolded it into our history, studied and honored it. Many of us have made a pilgrimage to the site of the twin towers and been overwhelmed by the space and the silence. I [...]

25 08, 2021

“Should we still have a funeral?”

By | 2021-08-25T08:11:38-07:00 August 25th, 2021|General|0 Comments

  So many families are asking this question, "Should we still have a funeral?” COVID made funerals impossible and the delays kept coming. Funerals were put off and families have been left without a critical tool in the bereavement journey: the funeral day. It seems that it took COVID [...]

21 07, 2021

July | Bereaved Parents Awareness Month

By | 2021-07-22T07:04:19-07:00 July 21st, 2021|General|0 Comments

The nightmare becomes reality. Child-loss is something we avoid reading about, thinking about, or wanting to look at at almost all costs. The pain is so much. The loss is "disorganized" as Dr. Bill Hoy puts it, meaning it occurs out of our natural order. We all agree on [...]

30 06, 2021

How Do We Transition Out of Grief?

By | 2021-06-29T21:07:02-07:00 June 30th, 2021|Grief & Healing, Self-Help|0 Comments

Last month I wrote about how "resurrection doesn't mean reversal" (quoting the fabulous Nadia Bolz-Weber). It occurs to me that the navigation of re-entry that we are all facing has a great deal in common with the re-entry bereaved people face. We are entering a familiar world with familiar [...]

26 05, 2021

Grief and the Myth of “Back to Normal”

By | 2021-05-26T07:50:39-07:00 May 26th, 2021|General, Self-Help|0 Comments

  Myth of "Back to Normal" after COVID We keep talking about "back to normal" and it sounds so wonderful. I so badly want to see and feel the life I had before this pandemic darkness. But when I step outside and visit my old haunts normal isn't anywhere [...]

10 02, 2021

Grieving Your Sweetheart

By | 2021-02-10T22:30:05-08:00 February 10th, 2021|General, Grief & Healing|0 Comments

  Valentine's Day without your Valentine is not going to be an easy day. There's a darkness just to saying or typing out the idea. If this Sunday will be your first or fifteenth Valentine's Day without your sweetheart, I am truly so sorry. Since you are here, I'm [...]

10 12, 2020

What Do You Give a Grieving Person?

By | 2020-12-11T07:17:47-08:00 December 10th, 2020|General, Resources & Information|1 Comment

    Grieving people can be difficult to buy for. The main reason for that, is that their life has taken on a complete and total inventory check of what's meaningful and actually important. I remember hearing a bereaved person say that their "bullsh!t meter" was sharper than ever [...]